If your ex-wife refuses to sell the home or deed her interest to you and the real estate is not mentioned in your divorce decree, the only way you can sell it is to start a court proceeding known as a "partition" action.
When a husband and wife buy a home together, they own it as "tenants by the entirety". Upon the death of one spouse, the surviving spouse automatically becomes sole owner of the property. This is known as the "right of survivorship".
When there is a divorce, the tenancy by the entirety is dissolved into a "tenancy-in-common", whereby each spouse has a one-half interest in the property without the right of survivorship. The tenancy-in-common differs from the "joint tenancy", which is common ownership with the right of survivorship.
Generally, tenants-in-common and joint tenants "in possession of real property" have the right to partition of the property. But if the separation agreement or divorce decree grants exclusive possession of the home to the wife, the husband usually is denied his right to partition.
In a partition action, real estate is either divided into distinct portions or sold at a public auction and the proceeds distributed among the co-owners (if it is not possible to divide the property).
Before the court orders an auction sale, it appoints a court referee to: ascertain the rights, shares and interests of the parties; determine if any creditors have liens against the property; and determine whether a sale instead of a division of the property is necessary.
After the referee makes his report to the court, the court orders the property to be sold at a public auction under the guidance of a court referee.
After the auction sale, the referee reports to the court and transfers the property to the highest bidder by means of a referee's deed. Court costs, expenses of the sale and liens are paid first from the proceeds of the sale. The remaining balance is divided between the co-owners.
If your ex-wife lived in the home, she will be given credit for one-half of the expenses of preserving and maintaining it from the day of your divorce. These expenses include mortgage payments, real estate taxes, homeowners' insurance and improvements to the property. The court has the option of ordering that court costs to be paid out of one of the co-owners portion rather than out of the total proceeds.
If your spouse cannot be found in order to be paid her portion, the money will be paid to the court and invested in permanent securities at interest until it is claimed by her or her legal representative.