To find out if your spouse has filed for divorce against you but not served you yet, you can contact the County Clerk’s office for more information.
If you find that your spouse has filed, you should promptly consult a divorce attorney for yourself to better understand your options.
There are many reasons why your spouse may not have served you yet, including that they may not be sure they want to proceed.
On the other hand, there may be strategic reasons to wait out much of the service window, which is 120 days, and it may behoove you to file on your own behalf, commence service, and move the action forward.
The attorneys at Friedman & Ranzenhofer are experienced Rochester divorce attorneys who can help you understand the current situation and make decisions about your next steps.
Call us today at 585-484-7432 for a legal consultation.